Isn’t it true that a person with an addiction has to hit bottom first before getting help, or at least has to want to get help?
False. The sooner addiction is treated the quicker and easier recovery is. You and the alcoholic/addict could spend a lot more pain, time, energy and money waiting to hit bottom. And they may never be able to ask for help. By stepping in and making healthy life saving changes you help bring their bottom up to them. The disease of addiction affects everyone in a family unconsciously. Initiating change with love, care and support helps break the bondage of addiction holding the person back.
Who do I ask to be a part of the addiction intervention?
The key people to ask are those who the alcoholic / addict know and respect. Family, friends, co-workers, employers are all good. It is the relationship between people that is essential.
Why hire a professional addiction interventionist?
Alcoholics and those with addictions are incapable of seeing the consequences of their addiction. Others around them recognize a problem but feel there is nothing to be done about it. Their powerlessness and emotional closeness challenges their ability to handle the experience positively. This process of addiction intervention places everyone at ease by gently and respectfully expressing concern, love and support for the addict. It allows everyone involved to gain from the experience with nobody playing the heavy. This particular model of addiction intervention also has an 85% success rate.
Does heath insurance cover interventions?
No. But waiting much longer to get help could cost more than just medical bills.
What can I do if family members are opposed to doing an addiction intervention?
The irony is it takes courage to express love for another person and it is the denying, enabling and supporting that is keeping the addiction alive. At no time is anyone under attack nor is it an event based on shame or guilt. Instead it is a moment for honoring the importance of this person in your life and only those who genuinely love, care and respect this person will express their thoughts.
What if the alcoholic/addict walks out?
This is seldom the case since what is being shared are words of love and support and not condemnation.
What if the alcoholic/addict gets angry or combative?
Because this is not an attack of the person, it is unlikely there will be any outrage. More likely tearful emotions will occur due to the love surrounding them. If there has been a history of violence, this will be addressed in the early stages of assessment before the group gathers and appropriate precautions set in place.
How much time does an intervention take?
The first day for preparation usually takes 3-4 hours. The day of the intervention is generally is 1-3 hours.
What can I expect?
- A sense of relief from taking positive action.
- A safe and comfortable atmosphere to express the motivation for healthy change.
- Healthy communication and support among all family members.
- A conscious shift to healthy family interaction.
- A change from shame, blame, guilt and low self-worth toward new beginnings and choices.
- Strict confidentiality throughout the intervention process.
How do I know what treatment facility is best?
While working with a family, I gather information regarding the persons condition, family history and background. I will then present options of treatment facilities that would best suit the individual and their family. |